Compassionate. Grounded. Pleasure-centered.

It’s more than just sex.

Now On Demand: Reclaim Your Sex Life

Helping Clients Recover an Empowered Sexuality Post-trauma

This asynchronous CE course is designed for sex therapists, sex educators, clinicians, advocates, social workers, and counselors that work with adult survivors of sexual trauma. We will focus on helping clients identify their stress responses, increase understanding and compassion for dissociation, and practice applied mindfulness techniques.

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You can reclaim pleasure and joy. Even long term symptoms can heal. While we can’t undo historical, intergenerational, or personal trauma or the trauma of living under systems of oppression, I can support you in healing those wounds, drawing from your sources of resiliency, to truly know your worth, and help you know your power in this world.

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Working with LGBTQ & sexually diverse clients
Sex therapy basics for clinicians
Reclaiming your sex life after trauma, illness, and change

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Meet Molly Adler

AASECT Certified Sex Therapist

My practice Sex Therapy New Mexico is based in Albuquerque on Tiwa land. I love getting to work alongside people as they heal and grow, bringing compassion and a sense of humor. I enjoy the micro-level therapeutic work, as well as working towards structural change by offering training for healthcare providers and institutions who want to be more inclusive of sexual and gender diversity in their work.

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Compassionate. Grounded. Pleasure-centered.
It’s more than just sex. Intersectional feminism, somatic mindfulness, trauma healing.Based on Tiwa Land.

A Wake-Up Call for Clinicians: When safe spaces ca

“There is nowhere you are safe.” 💔 These d

“There is nowhere you are safe.” 💔

These devastating words reflect what our clients hear when we commit microaggressions in spaces meant to be their sanctuary. As mental health professionals, we need to sit with that uncomfortable truth for a minute.

Let’s get real: Our clinical training can sometimes be a shield that protects us from examining our biases. We’ve all been taught to trust our “clinical judgment” - but what happens when that judgment is clouded by ethnocultural countertransference? What happens when our own cultural wounds and privileges unconsciously shape how we see our clients? 🤔

The impact is real: When we pathologize a BIPOC client’s anger as “opposition,” when we minimize queer trauma as “oversensitivity,” when we label cultural differences as “resistance” - we’re not just making clinical observations. We’re perpetuating the very systems of oppression our clients come to us to heal from.

That’s why you won’t want to miss Sheila Ciminera’s upcoming workshop “Microaggressions in ‘Safe’ Spaces” on November 8th (12-2pm MST). Through experiential learning, role play, and honest group dialogue, we’ll explore how to recognize and address these subtle yet harmful dynamics in our practice.

This isn’t about shame - it’s about growth and doing better. Earn 2 CE credits while learning practical tools for creating truly safer spaces. Sliding scale pricing is available ($45-85). Note: this workshop will NOT be recorded.

✨Ready to transform your practice? Click the link in bio to secure your spot!

#TherapyForAll #IntersectionalMentalHealth #SocialJustice #CulturalCompetency #CEUSeminar #TherapistEducation #AntiOppressivePractice #MentalHealthEquity #DecolonizingTherapy

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Thank you @selfservetoys for relevant Halloween decorations! 👏🏼

Bury that spooky shame!!! 👻

Is your therapy room REALLY safe?? Let’s talk a

Is your therapy room REALLY safe??

Let’s talk about creating TRULY safer spaces that go beyond the basics. Because we all know a “safe space” sign alone doesn’t cut it, right? 😏

As mental health pros, we’re all about that healing journey. But here’s the tea: our therapy rooms might be reinforcing the very systems we’re trying to dismantle. 😬 Yep, even with the best intentions, we could be missing crucial elements of inclusivity.

From sneaky microaggressions to unintentional barriers, creating a genuinely safe space is a constant evolution. It’s time to check our privileges, challenge our assumptions, and get real about what “safety” means for our diverse clientele.

That’s why I’m beyond excited to invite you to our upcoming workshop with the amazing Sheila Ciminera, LCSW: “Microaggressions in ‘Safe’ Spaces” on November 8th at 12pm MST. This isn’t your average diversity training, folks. We’re diving deep into the nitty-gritty of creating trauma-informed, culturally responsive, and truly welcoming therapy environments.

Click the link in our bio to secure your spot.
Let’s create spaces where every client can thrive, not just survive. 💪🏽🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️

#InclusiveTherapy #MentalHealthEquity #QueerAffirming #IntersectionalHealing #CEUWorkshop #TherapistGrowth
#Microaggressions #DoNoHarm #ContinuingEducation

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How Safe is Your Therapy Room?
Swipe for our “safer spaces” checklist and see how you do.
Scroll through for an opportunity that will help you upgrade even more!

Interrogating “Safety”
Acknowledge that “safety” is subjective and culturally defined
• Recognize that your idea of “safe” may not align with clients’ experiences
Regularly assess power dynamics in the therapeutic relationship
• Reflect: How might your own social positionality impact client safety?

Physical Space
- Have an accessible entrance and furniture
* ��Have gender-neutral restroom available
* ��Have diverse art representing various cultures and identities
Have adjustable lighting for sensory needs
Tip: Ask clients about their comfort and needs!

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